New Book Coming Soon!

Clayton Barker is currently working on editing his new upcoming book about his experience of living Nonviolent Communication Self-Empathy to inspire Men to cultivate a Feelings Vocabulary that is Emotionally Available, Emotionally Intelligent, & Embodies the Divine Masculine Way of Being Vulnerable with Self Love.

Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker has been the change with his own Mastery of Empathy & Nonviolent Communication when he LIVED IT in 2012 to thrive & survive being held up at gun point for 20 Minutes on the way to volunteering at a Lakota Sundance. Click on the photo of the “Empathy Stories” book & read it on p. 143.

Hello. I am THAT I am. I am Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker and I am a Spiritual Empathy Life Coach that focuses on consciously co-creating Compassionate Communication Practices, Mindfulness Stress Reduction Training, Interfaith Spirituality, Empathy Tea Circles, Mother Earth Honor, Interfaith Harmony Music, Blue Lightning Energy Healing, and Sacred Comedy Wisdom to serve the peace, joy, laughter, and Liberation of ALL beings everywhere.

Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker is interviewed by Edwin Rutsch from The Center for Building a Culture of Empathy:

Imagine a world where everyone gets their needs met peacefully and abundantly!

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Imagine a world where everyone gets their needs met peacefully and abundantly! 〰️

I have had the lucky privilege to serve 1000’s of individuals, many families, and 150+ organizations across North America, India, Thailand, Maui, and Switzerland since 2007. Here are some highlights from many of my collaborative partners I have been blessed to have teamed up with in conscious co-creation:

MORA PUBLIC SCHOOLS

Yuba College Public Safety Program

Freemont Hindu Temple

Arroyos Del Norte

Elementary School

Positive Testimonials of Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker’s Interbeing Coaching Work:

“Thank you for hosting this playshop!  I left there feeling energized, hopeful, and with a full heart.” -Adamine Harms

About

Clayton Barker

Clayton Barker is not a concept; he embodies an Eternal Soul with rich ethnic roots spanning East Africa, Bab El Mandeb, Turkey, Siberia, Dagestan, Polynesia, South Central Asia, Portugal, Ireland, Scotland, Finland, Switzerland, Germany, and England. Adopted into the Maidu, Pit River, and Wintu Native American tribes by his Grand Paa, Wind Walker Blue Skin, Clayton carries a diverse heritage.

Trained in four martial arts—Kung Fu, Karate, Kalari Payattu, and Aikido—Clayton is dedicated to promoting safety and defense in life’s myriad situations. As a visionary multi-disciplinary artist, empathic life coach, and healing conduit of lightning energy, he infuses his work with the timeless expressions of the Mother Earth. He offers conscious co-creations, Empathy Tea Circles, Nonviolent Communication play shops, Interbeing Coaching programs, and Interfaith Harmony containers.

Clayton’s upbringing was profoundly influenced by a family committed to nonviolence. His father, a doctor, served during the Vietnam War, while his mother dedicated her career to suicide prevention and therapy for battered women. These early experiences shaped his understanding of compassion and nonviolence. However, the challenges of growing up in a military family exposed him to violence, leading him to seek solace in meditation, prayer, and peacemaking skills. Clayton intentionally got himself locked up in jail in 2023 so that he could do a 17-day hunger strike and 5 month and 1 week meditation retreat inside Sutter County Jail which is named after a child rapist who raped 12-year-old Indigenous Native American girls. Clayton spent his entire time in jail chanting prayers to the Divine Mother praying for healing and the jail to be renamed after a pure Woman and demolished by wrecking balls and turned into a Goddess Temple to Awaken the Divine Feminine Goddess.

Clayton has trained extensively in Nonviolent Communication (NVC) under Dr. Marshall Rosenberg and has participated in international trainings and leadership programs. A graduate of the One Year North American NVC Leadership Program, He also completed a community apprenticeship program where he co-organized intensive NVC training for youth leaders. He relentlessly dialogues for years to invite people to Empathy Tea Circles to dissolve traumatic conflicts.

In addition to his coaching and facilitation work, Clayton is the CEO of Interbeing Services Inc, a Licensed Handyman business in Siskiyou County. He also has a background in healthcare, having served as a nurse assistant and EMT, all while incorporating spiritual practices into his work. His diverse training spans various spiritual traditions, including Buddhist, Sikh, Taoist, Native American, Jewish, Islam, Christian, Hindu, Sufi, and many more.

Having lived as an unconventional Avadhuta Monk, Clayton’s journey includes teachings from Native American shamans and various spiritual masters worldwide. He holds a Bachelor of Arts in Environmental Studies with an emphasis on Indigenous Rights and Environmental Justice from the University of Colorado at Boulder. He also obtained a Emergency Medical Technician Certificate from Yuba College and was a graduate of the Certificate in the Year Long www.baynvc.org North American Nonviolent Commnication Leadership Program.

Clayton’s spiritual mission is to foster a world where everyone’s needs are met with love and compassion, honoring Mother Earth and harmonizing the Divine Feminine and Masculine. Embracing his paradoxical nature, he is committed to authenticity and magic in all aspects of his life. His vow is to reincarnate for Eternity in an infinite number of bodies to Protect Mother Earth and serve the Liberation of ALL beings everywhere.

Join him on this transformative journey of Interbeing Coaching, where love, empathy, and understanding flourish, sometimes in very eccentric, authentically challenging, unique, Clowney, backwards, humorous, lightning strike of clarity kinds of illuminating ways.

How to

Stay Calm

in Any

Confrontation

Test Your Own Nonviolent Communication Skillz

Dr. Marshall Rosenberg, the founder of the Center for Nonviolent Communication is famous for testing NVC Practitioners and Center for Nonviolent Communication Certification Trainer Candidates by acting as a cussing shit talking gang banger to See if they have the capacity to guess the feelings and needs of the heart behind hard to hear messages. Go ahead and listen to this “Gangsta Life” West Coast Hip Hop Rap Video and see if you can hear & guess the feelings and needs behind the lyrics of these Gangsta Rappers:

Clayton Barker has been invited to be a guest speaker at the Empathy Summit in November 2025 to speak about his experience with sharing Empathy Tea Circles. Here is the Empathy Tea Circle process we have adapted from www.empathycircles.com & www.restorativecircles.org if you want to use this to discuss topics & conflicts with a taste of empathic magic:

Please kindly send criticism to keepbalance108@gmail.com. I want to hear the underlying feelings and needs, swallow the poison of your blame of me, alchemize it with mindful contemplation to grow, accept criticism, and transform it into the nectar of immortal bliss. It is harder for me to receive praise, appreciation, gratitude, thanks, honor, & recognition than it is for me to receive criticism, so you can also send that, and I will try not to take that personal either.

Psychology & Medical Disclaimer

The content of the Interbeing Coaching web site (“Site”), including text, graphics, and images (“Content”), is educational only and not intended to be a substitute for medical advice, therapy, psychiatry, addiction recovery programs including the 12 step programs, diagnosis or treatment.  Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker is not a medical doctor, therapist, psychiatrist, and does not claim to cure any disease, disorder, physical/mental illness, ailment, addiction, or sickness.  Utilizing Interbeing Coaching, Avadhuta Heyoka sacred clowning, and energy healing in any form is at the client’s own risk.  The client is taking complete responsibility of his/her own medical needs and/or care. If you have a medical or mental health emergency, call your doctor or 988 Suicide Crisis Hotline or 911 immediately. The information contained in this website is not intended to recommend the self-management of physical/mental health problems or wellness. It is not intended to endorse or recommend any particular type of medical, psychiatric, therapeutic, or addiction recovery treatment. Should any reader/client have any physical/mental health care related questions, promptly call or consult your physician, therapist, psychiatrist, addiction recovery counselor, 12 step sponsor, or healthcare provider. No information contained in this website should be used by any reader/client to disregard medical and/or any kind of mental health related advice or provide a basis to delay consultation with a physician, therapist, psychiatrist, addiction recovery counselor, 12 step sponsor, or a qualified healthcare provider.  Interbeing Coaching and Clayton “Shree Hari” Barker disclaim any liability based on information provided in this website.